A Professional Dominatrix According to Me.
I am a professional Dominatrix in Jersey City, New Jersey. Most of my sessions take place in my dungeon that is near the Journal Square PATH Station. The purpose of this page is to provide you with a reference which gives you a better understanding of my approach to female domination and how I practice BDSM as a professional Dominatrix. These are my personal philosophies and my own approach to both Female domination and being a professional Dominatrix. Please note that the following are my own views on these topics and that other providers’ philosophies and practices may be, and probably are, different. So do not use this as a catch all reference for the BDSM industry and its providers.
There seems to be a lot of confusion out there. With the internet, or because of the internet, many submissive men or kink curious men get mixed messages about what a professional Dominatrix does and does not do. This is a little guide I made to help you understand my understanding of professional Femdom and professional domination.
Before unpacking Female domination and what a professional Dominatrix is, let Me first explain what it is not. At least this is what I have agreed upon with others in My cohort. First, I do not do anything under the umbrella of GFE (Girlfriend experience), including its newly evolved form, the kinky GFE. It is also important to note that booking a session with a ProDomme is not simply a modality a man can use to get close to a beautiful woman who will wear his favorite fetish wear. In Femdom, the dynamic is traditionally not centered around the submissive’s individual pleasure. While in his role as Her submissive, the man should not dictate or design BDSM he will enjoy. All decisions should be deferred to Her, and the pleasure he receives should come from pleasing his Dominatrix. Classical or traditional Female domination also never involves Female nudity, intercourse, or any exchange of bodily fluids.
A professional Dominatrix is a woman who is from the world of Female domination who offers men professional BDSM sessions. When you see a professional Dominatrix, which includes Me, you are physically and mentally giving up “power” for a moment in time. Professionally, the Dominatrix (Me) and the submissive (you) will negotiate which BDSM activities take place during the scene. In this case, both individuals should leave satisfied with the experience. As a professional Dominatrix, I hold myself accountable for the physical safety and privacy of my submissives and for providing a fulfilling BDSM experience.
Your physical safety comes from the training I received from and while working for other Dominas. I also worked in a professional house of domination where I was able to get a dense amount of experience. Discretion is something I take very seriously and ensure by being the sole proprietor of my private dungeon, which is in a nondescript apartment building with a discreet entrance. I am also the only person who reads and responds to any message or email sent to me, and I handle all of my administration myself. I am the only person who will ever communicate with you or physically see you. A lot of effort is put into crafting high quality BDSM scenes and experiences. My dungeon is carefully designed and curated, and I am always making improvements or looking for improvements to make within it. I try to always look for new ways to improve my skill set and learn new things. I care deeply about my physical appearance, so you can always expect consistency in all my physical presentations.
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