Contact NJ Dominatrix Mistress Nina Mar – Jersey City
Use the form below to introduce yourself, describe your experience level, and share your interests. I respond to sincere, respectful inquiries only. If you do not hear from Me within 48 hours come back to this page and read it again.
What to Include in Your Message
The following 6 subjects must be addressed in the contact form. I prioritize and usually only respond to people who hit all 6. If you filled out the contact form with serious intention to serve and don’t understand why you haven’t heard from Me, fill it out again, but this time make sure you nail all 6 bullet points.
- Your experience level. Are you new to BDSM or do you have prior session experience?
- The types of scenes or dynamics you are drawn to (e.g., discipline, bondage, roleplay, sensory deprivation, domestic service)
- Any hard limits or health considerations I should be aware of
- Your general availability for scheduling
- For your screening, are you going to provide two verifiable references with their contact information or a photo of your ID
- For the 50 deposit do you prefer Venmo, cash app, or Amazon gift card.
What Happens After You Submit
After you fill out My contact form I will review it and either respond to it or discard it. I only respond to thoughtful messages from genuine submissives who are excited to book a session with and ready to submit to Me. I do not respond to one-line requests or incoherent writing. I have enough experience to review a contact form and predict with a high degree of certainty if the someone is going to book; even before contact is initiated. If I do respond to your contact form I will engage with no more than 5 email volleys after which I will stop responding. If you do the math, this means within a thread of 10 emails a session needs to be booked. If I sense I am being taken advantage of, I will stop responding. If contact is initiated but communication turns to rambling and doesn’t focus on the goal of successfully booking a session with Me I will stop engaging.
If you receive a response from Me and I believe our communication shows we are a good match you will first participate in a screening. After I screen you I will ask you to expand on your the initial interests and limits you discussed in the contact form. Then I will ask you to provide me with few dates and times so I can compare them to my schedule. After we agree upon a date and time I will request the required $50.00 deposit to hold your place. Once I receive the deposit you are booked and in My calendar.
Note: No AI was used in writing the copy for this page.